A mother’s happiness is indescribable when it comes to seeing her children happy in life. One of these occasions is when your son is getting married. Of course, there are various cases in marriages. For some people, marriage comes out of the blue, based on a few months’ relationship. Other times you get engaged to someone, but realize your terrible mistake and then marry someone else. And then there are the predictable cases, 5, 10 or even more years of relationship leading to marriage.
Being given the occasion of a mother of the groom speech, you need to have a speech, you need to make a point and just be ready to present whatever you need to present. A speech doesn’t come out of 2-3 minutes of thinking, but it can originate from just 2-3 small and simple ideas! How come? It’s all very simple: you need to apply the speech structure, and then you just need to be there and present it all. Presenting, and even preparing are basic things and anyone can achieve such things.
Before the actual structure – prepare yourself
You need to prepare not only structurally, but also physically, psychically and with respect to the time you have at hand. Physically you will certainly need to make some efforts – maybe it’s just at home, cleaning the house, or maybe it’s a lot more than that. Since cases are various and there is hardly any scheme, depending on your situation and family the physical preparedness means one or multiple things.
Then, psychically, you need to be in control of emotions, stress and other factors. For example, you might have a stressful job, but you can’t bring that atmosphere to the wedding or to the speech. You need to separate the two events and acknowledge that your job has its own bad parts, but now you’re focused on your son’s wedding.
Preparing means also to document yourself. Try to find out what’s the latest in wedding speeches, what people are doing these days! You need to learn, and find out about these things as much as possible. If some of your friends were invited to weddings recently, ask around. They’ll be able to talk about traditions, speeches, wedding dresses and many other aspects. Such information will always help you and ultimately will allow you to give an amazing groom’s mother speech! More